The network of relationships is like a team, everyone helps the other, has gratitude and benefits. In today’s society, being single is no longer a preferred strategy because individual strength is limited, unity is the strongest. Therefore, you need to learn how to build a network of good relationships for yourself. In interpersonal communication, EQ is the most important thing. People with high emotional intelligence are loved everywhere, on the contrary, too low an EQ leads to hatred everywhere. In general, people with low emotional intelligence often have the following three very uncomfortable language habits.
1. Criticizing others
People with low emotional intelligence love to criticize others when they speak, maybe they are not aware of this mistake themselves, so they inadvertently hurt others. Of course, there are some people who do it on purpose, usually because they want to brag about themselves and bash their co-workers or friends. Such bad habits will only alienate those around you even more and even “block” your name from their lives.
On the other hand, when speaking, people with high emotional intelligence are easily liked by people because they are often very attentive. You know how to think from the perspective of others, empathize with the other person, that kind of personality is very valuable. Because in today’s materialistic society this is very difficult. If you know such people, you must appreciate them. I believe that they will be your most effective assistant in the future.
2. Easily influenced by emotions
When this type of person talks to others, they often easily lose control of their emotions, they get angry or irritated easily all the time. Even your emotions can’t be controlled, if you prove you don’t have self-control, even a little pressure can’t be tolerated, what can the future do? Emotions are the greatest enemy in human relationships. Please, would you like to be with someone who is often angry with you?
If they are people with high emotional intelligence, they often choose to control their emotions and try not to influence their friends and relatives around them.
“The more pressure you can take, the more difficulties you will have, the greater your success will be.” This sentence is not true.
So, if you want to have a broad relationship, you definitely need to learn how to change your temper and control your emotions.
3. Likes to “cut the wind”
People without emotional intelligence always like to show their ego in conversation, in any way they always expect others to be jealous of them. They like to satisfy their ego by showing off, but it’s easy to arouse other people’s disgust. Hanging out with your friends and wanting to be above everyone else all day is too selfish. In addition, bragging too much in front of some friends with bad conditions is also a very cruel act, which can be compared to stabbing someone’s self-esteem with a knife. Therefore, in order not to harm yourself and others, you should not say such boastful words, then your future will develop more easily.
Emotional intelligence plays a very important role in interpersonal relationships and I think we should be aware of it as early as possible. If you want to have a wide network of relationships, you need to know how to deal with people, speak well and be human. Only when you are willing to nurture a higher level of yourself can the quality of your friends improve.