After childbirth, a woman needs time to recover physically and mentally. The elderly “prescribe” this length of stay at 3 months and 10 days, and obstetricians encourage mothers to rest depending on their own situation, but in the first 4 weeks it is necessary to avoid vigorous activity. However, the mother below, who was only one day old, insisted on being discharged from the hospital to go to work.
This woman, surnamed Shen (42 years old), was admitted to Xiaoshan Hospital in Hangzhou, Zhejiang (China) a few days ago. It is known that when the mother was hospitalized in labor with ruptured membranes, the doctors quickly examined and closely monitored, because the mother gave birth to the third child at an advanced age, she had to be very careful. Then, with the efforts of the medical staff, Ms. Shen gave birth to a healthy and beautiful baby boy.
The mother gave birth to her third child at the age of 42.
However, immediately after the birth, the mother immediately asked for dismissal, which confused everyone. She said her family situation is extremely difficult. 10 years ago they had twins and sent them to their grandparents in the country to go to Hangzhou to work. But bad luck struck when her husband had an accident on the construction site, lost his ability to work and had to return to his hometown. Since then, only Ms. Shen stayed in Hangzhou to work and earn money as she was the family’s main breadwinner.
Then she was surprised pregnant The third child at the age of 42, although many people advised careful consideration, but not wanting to disappoint her husband, she still decided to give birth to this child, and it was a boy. After giving birth, this mother could not rest because she was too worried about the cost of raising her husband and 3 young children, so she decided to leave the hospital immediately to earn money to take care of her family A few days off, her husband and children will probably have to face the scene without eating. When asked by the nurses, the pregnant woman also said that she was fortunate to have the owner’s support beforehand, so she continued to work until just before her due date. When there were signs of labor, they took a car to take her to the hospital.
Due to difficult circumstances, after the birth, Ms. Shen asked to be released from the hospital to work and earn money.
Of course, the doctors prevented Ms. Shen from leaving the hospital as she wanted. After that, the doctor and nurse also donated some money to support their mother and daughter.
The story posted on social networks has attracted a lot of attention. Many people feel sorry for the situation of the mother of three, but there are also people who think that after having two children, she did not take care to avoid pregnancy. A few notable comments: “Poor but also deplorable, the family had a hard time but also accidentally got pregnant with the 3rd baby”, “To be honest, it is difficult for you and your family to be pregnant”, “She is 42 Years old and giving birth The period of rehabilitation affects health, and then health to raise husband and children”, “I’m so sorry! But I hope you take good care of it, you still have the strength to go to work after your pregnancy is over, but if you work early, you harm people later.”… .
Scientific standard diets for mothers after childbirth
After childbirth, the mother does not have to abstain too carefully as in the old concept, which easily leads to frustration, discomfort and psychological influence. However, postpartum mothers still need to pay attention to the following points:
– Do not eat salty foods and refrain excessively.
– Avoid lifting and carrying heavy objects.
– Do not do heavy exercises.
– Do not drink alcohol and alcoholic beverages, caffeine.
– Do not use drugs indiscriminately.
Avoid early sex before 6-8 weeks postpartum.
– Avoid stress, fatigue.
Avoid taking cold showers or swimming.